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Friday, September 7, 2012

Moms Talk: How Judy Blume Helped Me Grow Up

The iconic author’s breast cancer announcement spurs nostalgia for Margaret, Deenie and Sheila the Great.

  When I read the news this week that Judy Blume has breast cancer, I reacted as if she were a favorite aunt. Oh no—not Judy! After all, Aunty Jude stood by me (and countless other women in my generation) throughout my awkward and angsty adolescence. She answered embarrassing questions and assured me that the things I was feeling were normal. No, her books are not literary masterpieces. The One in the Middle is the Green Kangaroo is no To Kill a Mockingbird. No one should dare compare the prose of Forever with that of A Separate Peace. And Deenie isn’t even in the same league as Little Women. But whereas I devoured all six of those novels around the same time—and count the three critical darlings among my all-time favorites—let’s just say …

SK

4:32 pm on Friday, September 7, 2012

Wow, now I want to go back and read all of her books!   more ›

Monday, July 30, 2012

Moms Talk: Talking To Kids About Sex

One expert says parents should begin the conversation as soon as kids can speak.

  I was driving my 7-year-old to baseball camp last week when I realized, too late, that Matty in the Morning was interviewing a woman with two vaginas. I’m pretty sure my son, on the other hand, caught on from the first reference—having superhuman radar when it comes to all things genitalia. No sooner had I heard “one in front and one in back” and “there could be two pregnancies” and “could the child go down the dead-end,” when Finn piped up: “What does a vagina have to do with pregnancy?” “We’re here!” I replied. What I should have told him: The vagina is the orifice out of which babies are born. Except probably without the word “orifice.” Apparently, this is a subject on which kids aren’t very clear. The son of one of my friends thinks …

makhala motsamai

4:42 pm on Tuesday, August 7, 2012

I also think its a good idea to talk to them about sex so as not to hear it from their friends first as they might give out wrong information and the kid might have the problem in future   more ›

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